I almost married the wrong man!

7th Annual

When you are a single woman at the Kingdom Hall, you must be careful that you are not caught off guard by brothers pursuing you for marriage when under normal circumstances you would not give that person the time of day.

 

 

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2 thoughts on “I almost married the wrong man!

  1. Thank you Lady Cee for sharing your personal story with us today. You are so right! No. 1: these young women ARE flattered when a brother shows interest especially one in a congregation where there’s not many brothers or none at all. No. 2: there’s many times where brothers will visit a congregation that there are many single sisters for the specific reason of finding compatible wives. No. 3: loneliness and thinking this is the best catch thats come along and I better snap it up while I can because this guy is a pioneer or a ministerial servant or on his way to becoming an elder causes many to go ahead and settle rather than waiting to fall in love and find out if they’re truly compatible, go ahead and get married prematurely thinking, ‘oh love will come along later if we make this partnership work now’.

    These pitfalls lead to so much unhappiness and eventually divorce which for a Jehovah’s Witness generally leads to just DISFellowshipping in the congregation. Some of it leads to physical violence within the marriage. All horrible things especially when you consider this could have all been avoided if they would have just dated properly to begin with as you bring out the most important thing of all with your message today Lady Cee! Thank you again and as always I value your Airway shows so very much. Much love… ~Debbie

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  2. Thank you Lady Cee for sharing your personal story with us today. You are so right! No. 1: these young women ARE flattered when a brother shows interest especially one in a congregation where there’s not many brothers or none at all. No. 2: there’s manty times where brothers will visit a congregation that there are many single sisters for the specific reason of finding compatible wives. No. 3: loneliness and thinking this is the best catch thats come along and I better snap it up while I can because this guy is a ministerial servant or on his way to becoming an elder causes many to go ahead and settle rather than waiting to fall in love and find out if they’re truly compatible, go ahead and get married prematurely thinking, ‘oh love will come along later if we make this partnership work now’.

    These pitfalls lead to so much unhappiness and eventually divorce which for a Jehovah’s Witness generally leads to just Fellowship in the congregation. Some of it leads to physical violence within the marriage. All horrible things especially when you consider this could have all been avoided if they would have just dated properly to begin with. You bring out the most important thing of all with your message today Lady Cee! Thank you again and as always I value your Airway shows so very much. Much love… ~Debbie

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